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By: Chris

Chris — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 18:45:00 +0000

Before I read throught he comments I wanted to post one. This is easily one of the heaviest things I've ever read.

With all of the hoopla over Prop-8 in CA and the whole same-sex marriage issue - I've treid to keep up but never would ahve thought of the scenario you are living.

I hate that people feel compelled to define marriage as "between a man and a woman", it really needs to read "between two consenting adults" - love in an emotion and emotions are genderless.

I am so sorry that you must endure this - I would ask if it made sense to move to a state where same sex marriage is legal (here in MA), but that isn't a real solution because you would have to give up your home and your circle of friends and rearrange your whole life to do so.

It is so unfair. I wish you all the happinesss in the world and will continue to pray that human rights issues such as this one will be resolved.

By: Pseudonymous High School Teacher

Pseudonymous High School Teacher — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:59:00 +0000

Unconditional love may not always be easy, but it is what it is. Your mother may take awhile to recongnize that this is the what she needs to have and show, I hope she is able to do so for you.

By: Non Sequitur Chica

Non Sequitur Chica — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 03:43:00 +0000

Fly out here to MA and we can hook you up!

On a more serious note, I don't understand why people voted for Prop 8. Years from now gay marriage won't be a big deal and people will read in the history books about the struggle.

Good luck with your mom. That is a difficult situation and I'm not sure I have any advice for you.

By: Hilly

Hilly — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 03:41:00 +0000

Because I too agree with Ben, I feel like a sheep…baa. But it is that simple…love is love is love is love.

No matter what shape, color, sexual orientation or complicated situation. It is all just love.

Thanks for sharing with us.

By: Princess Pointful

Princess Pointful — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 02:14:00 +0000

I can’t even imagine… not the having someone you love more than anything, like you do for her, but the idea that anyone could ever believe that you marriage is becomes less real, less valid because of an operation.