Comments on: Married http://somispeaks.com/2009/11/04/married/ ... the dog days of happily ever after Thu, 17 May 2012 22:35:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: BS http://somispeaks.com/2009/11/04/married/comment-page-1/#comment-13348 BS Fri, 06 Nov 2009 08:46:32 +0000 http://somispeaks.com/?p=1891#comment-13348 My most recent ex starting dating a woman and for the first time ever understood what I'd been talking about when I insisted that I wanted chemistry. That he has that chemistry with someone who isn't me, that he found someone he wants to spend the rest of his life with who isn't me, that he is head over heels for a woman who is brilliant, beautiful, kind, fun, and successful and not me doesn't matter a bit. He's wonderful, he deserves it, and (honestly) my first reaction when I met her was, "marry her, now!" My second reaction was, "If it's not too weird for you, I totally want to hang out with her again." (Really, the woman rocks.) I'm not sure I'd have the same reaction to all of my exes, but my friendship with that one is very real so I reacted as I would for anyone I love. My most recent ex starting dating a woman and for the first time ever understood what I’d been talking about when I insisted that I wanted chemistry. That he has that chemistry with someone who isn’t me, that he found someone he wants to spend the rest of his life with who isn’t me, that he is head over heels for a woman who is brilliant, beautiful, kind, fun, and successful and not me doesn’t matter a bit. He’s wonderful, he deserves it, and (honestly) my first reaction when I met her was, “marry her, now!” My second reaction was, “If it’s not too weird for you, I totally want to hang out with her again.” (Really, the woman rocks.) I’m not sure I’d have the same reaction to all of my exes, but my friendship with that one is very real so I reacted as I would for anyone I love.

]]> By: Kathleen http://somispeaks.com/2009/11/04/married/comment-page-1/#comment-13327 Kathleen Thu, 05 Nov 2009 05:24:51 +0000 http://somispeaks.com/?p=1891#comment-13327 Oh man, I was in one relationship that ended very badly. He broke up with me after he had even had my finger sized for rings and we had planned our life together. Then after he broke up with me, he still told me he loved me all the time. It took everything in me to cut off communication with him completely, and I haven't heard anything from him since. I go through times when I am just dying to know what's become of him. And I'm ashamed to admit that I kind of don't want him to be happily married, just because I'm still pretty mad at him when I think about it. I wonder when that will go away? Oh man, I was in one relationship that ended very badly. He broke up with me after he had even had my finger sized for rings and we had planned our life together. Then after he broke up with me, he still told me he loved me all the time. It took everything in me to cut off communication with him completely, and I haven’t heard anything from him since.

I go through times when I am just dying to know what’s become of him. And I’m ashamed to admit that I kind of don’t want him to be happily married, just because I’m still pretty mad at him when I think about it. I wonder when that will go away?

]]> By: sizzle http://somispeaks.com/2009/11/04/married/comment-page-1/#comment-13326 sizzle Thu, 05 Nov 2009 05:15:53 +0000 http://somispeaks.com/?p=1891#comment-13326 That question is a can of worms for me right now. . . so I plead the fifth. That question is a can of worms for me right now. . . so I plead the fifth.

]]> By: Jessica http://somispeaks.com/2009/11/04/married/comment-page-1/#comment-13325 Jessica Thu, 05 Nov 2009 03:41:53 +0000 http://somispeaks.com/?p=1891#comment-13325 There is one ex that I am so curious to find out more about now but I haven't been able to and the curiousity is killing me. The almost the not knowing that makes me crazier. There is one ex that I am so curious to find out more about now but I haven’t been able to and the curiousity is killing me. The almost the not knowing that makes me crazier.

]]> By: Nichole M http://somispeaks.com/2009/11/04/married/comment-page-1/#comment-13324 Nichole M Thu, 05 Nov 2009 00:05:34 +0000 http://somispeaks.com/?p=1891#comment-13324 One ex of mine found me on my blog (when I still had my last name foolishly posted there). He emailed me, asked me what I was up to. He also put in the email an innuendo to something sexual. And because I'm married and thought it was highly inappropriate, I didn't respond. None of my other ex's have contacted me. Every few years, I'll do a google search for one, but that's about it. And dude... it was a freaking long-ass time ago anyway! ;-) One ex of mine found me on my blog (when I still had my last name foolishly posted there). He emailed me, asked me what I was up to. He also put in the email an innuendo to something sexual. And because I’m married and thought it was highly inappropriate, I didn’t respond.

None of my other ex’s have contacted me. Every few years, I’ll do a google search for one, but that’s about it. And dude… it was a freaking long-ass time ago anyway! ;-)

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